With Nonna (grandmother), the conversation is almost always about food. Whenever she calls the first thing she asks is always "Maria, hai magiato? You eat?" From there the conversation will then go to what did you eat, what time did you eat, who's home, where is everyone, and then she will say the reason she called. Its a process, but I know she genuinely cares and wants to make sure I am not dying of starvation. I could only imagine what she would do if I said I didn't eat and that I was hungry.

They are both very set on their ways and when something needs to be done they need to do it their way. For example, during Hurricane Sandy part of a tree fell down in front of their house. It was a little tree and it landed on part of their lawn. Instead of letting the storm pass to take care of this small issue, my grandfather went out that exact minute to cut the tree down. Within the family, we were not surprised at all on his actions. He wanted to get it done right then and there.
This is how they are and at times all we can do is laugh at their actions. But at the same time, it is something to look up to (well not the part about going out in the middle of a hurricane). They have a drive that sets them apart from others and that keeps them going. Without that drive, they would not be the people they are today. Luckily with this drive, it keeps them young, lively, and full of humor for the rest of us to enjoy.
I love your blog it makes me laugh and makes me cry.I know that you will cherish these memories with all your heart.
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ReplyDeleteIt's so important to have the utmost respect for our elders. They teach us so much and the Italian culture exemplifies this. What I love about cultures that put an emphasis on respecting our elders is that generally within those cultures the same is true for the same level of respect for children.The relationship you have with your Nona and No no is proof of this! Bravo Maria!!
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